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Two Good Choices






Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will. 
Romans 12:2 (NIV)

Have you ever heard the expression “when God closes a door, He opens a window?” It’s simply saying that God can position us in such a way, whether through approval or rejection, that brings about the results He wants for us. 

I remember a time when I was in a very comfortable place in life. No sooner than I got there that another opportunity presented itself. What was different about this situation was I found myself at a crossroads faced with two good choices. Ever been there?

It would have been much easier if there was a clear direction I was to take. So, what happens if both windows are open at the same time? 

Indecisiveness camped out and I found myself restless. As I did everything I knew to do: prayed without ceasing, read the Bible, made a pros and cons list and consulted wise counsel, it dawned on me that even though I did all the checklist items, I was in my own way.  I hadn't let HIM do the work in me.  

Our goal, as Christians, is to become more like Christ.  This is so often a process that happens over time, unveiled by peeling back layer after layer. Every circumstance we go through will hopefully be a teaching lesson to mature us so we can discern what is best. So, I asked the Lord what He wanted me to learn from this. As I did, He began to sift ugly things out of me. Things like selfishness and worry.  He was also teaching me to lean on and seek Him as I sought the answer. 

Though we may question, doubt and struggle to find the right answers, He is there through all of it. As long as we are thinking biblically and living obediently, we are in the will of God. He is sovereign and He is more than capable of using any and every situation, decision we make or person we encounter to fulfill His perfect plan for our lives.

Prayer
Father, thank you for the freedom of choice and opportunities you have given me. I don’t want to be anywhere or do anything that is outside of your will. I ask for wisdom and clarity as I seek You.  I trust that no matter what, you will get me exactly where I am supposed to be.  In Jesus’ name, amen. 


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