Two are better than one because they have a good reward for their efforts. For if either falls, his companion can lift him up; but pity the one who falls without another to lift him up. – Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 Does anyone care? I’ve asked myself this question more times than I’d like to admit. Not long ago, I was having a full-blown pity-party kind of day. Ever have one of those? When life just seems harder than it should be, and everyone should somehow know you are having a hard day, yet nothing. No texts. No calls. Just crickets. I want to say this clearly. I have a sweet and loving husband. He listens as I vent to him on the regular. He offers wisdom and fixes what he can. But on this particular day, I found myself longing for something different. A really close girlfriend. Someone who understands the unique emotions we, as women, walk through. As Ecclesiastes reminds us, two are better than one. Notice Solomon didn’t say twenty-five is better than one. ...
I beckoned you to come near, but my way didn’t look like what you wanted. The lights of the night drew you in, Pulling you into dark corners. I waited. You searched for acceptance in people with empty promises and hollow souls. You longed for love, not realizing it was mine you needed all along. I waited. You turned toward me in moments in need, in fear but each time, you pulled back thinking the distance was too great to cross. I waited. The end of your rope seemed to get longer. Still, I waited. Your choices led to pain. Things once whole began to fall apart. What you held onto slipped through your hands. I was there. I waited. Then, gently, I opened your eyes to what you had been chasing And your heart to what had been chasing you all along. And when you finally stopped running There I was, exactly where I had always been. Waiting.